Gary Smalley Personality Types Inventory
(from Making Love Last Forever, Ch. 10: Understanding Personality Types: A
Key to Lovability)
How to Take and Score the Inventory
1. For each temperament type, circle the positive traits (in the left
column) that sound the
most like you as you are at home. It will probably help to cover
the right hand
column as you take the inventory, to help you focus on the positives. Do
not score
yourself as you behave at work. (If you want to evaluate your at
work tendencies,
take the test again later, with that environment -- or any other in
mind.) For now,
ignore the right hand column.
2. For each trait, add up the number of circled traits (in the left
column) and then double
that number. This is your score.
3. To graph your temperament mix, mark your score for each
temperament type on the
graph with a large dot. If you want, draw a line to connect the dots.
Lion
Temperament Characteristics
Likes authority.
...Too direct or
demanding
Takes charge
.
..Pushy; can step
in front of
others
Determined.
... Overbearing
Confident.
..
. Cocky
Firm
...
...Unyielding
Enterprising.
..
.... Takes big risks
Competitive.
.
.. Cold blooded
Enjoys challenges.
.
..
..Avoids relations
Problem solver.
.
.... Too busy
Productive.
.
.
... Overlooks
feelings; do it now!
Bold.
.
...
Insensitive
Purposeful; goal driven
..
.... Imbalanced; workaholic
Decision maker.
.
.... Unthoughtful of
others' wishes
Adventurous.
.. Impulsive
Strong 'willed
...Stubborn
Independent; self reliant
....Avoids people; seeking help
Controlling.
...Bossy;
overbearing
Persistent.
.
.. Inflexible
Action oriented.
...Unyielding
"Let's do it now!"
Lion Score (Double the number circled): ___________
Otter
Temperament Characteristics
Enthusiastic.
.
Overbearing
Takes risks.
..
Dangerous
and foolish
Visionary
.
Daydreamer
Motivator.
..
Manipulator
Energetic.
..
Impatient
Very verbal.
Attacks
under pressure
Promoter.
Exaggerates
Friendly, mixes easily
Shallow relationships
Enjoys popularity
..
.
. Too showy
Fun loving.
..
Too
flippant; not serious
Likes variety.
..
Too
scattered
Spontaneous.
.
Not focused
Enjoys change.
.
..
Lacks follow
through
Creative; goes for new ideas. .
..Too unrealistic; avoids details
Group oriented.
.
.
Bored with
"process"
Optimistic
.
.
Doesn't
see details
Initiator.
.
.
.. Pushy
Infectious laughter
.
.
Obnoxious
Inspirational
.
..
. Phony
"Trust me! It'll work out!"
Otter score {double the number circled}: _________
Golden Retriever
Temperament Characteristics
Sensitive feelings.
..
.
Easily hurt
Loyal.
.
Misses opportunities
Calm; even keeled.
.
.
Lacks enthusiasm
Nondemanding
.
...
Weakling; pushover
Avoids confrontations. .
Misses honest intimacy
Enjoys routine
.
..
Stays in rut
Dislikes change.
.
.
Not spontaneous
Warm and relational.
.
.
Fewer deep friends
Gives in.
.
...
Co-dependent
Accommodating.
.
.
Indecisive
Cautious humor.
.
.
Overly cautious
Golden Retriever (contd)
Temperament Characteristics
Adaptable.
..
Loses
identity
Sympathetic.
..
Holds on
to others' hurts
Thoughtful.
.
Can be
taken advantage of
Nurturing.
.
..
Ears
get smashed
Patient.
Crowded out by others
Tolerant.
.
Weaker convictions
Good listener.
Attracted
to hurting people
Peacemaker.
.
Holds
personal hurts inside
"Let's keep things the way they are."
Golden retriever score (double the number circled): _____
Beaver
Temperament Characteristics
Reads all instructions.
.
.
Afraid to break rules
Accurate
.
. Too
critical
Consistent.
.
Lacks
spontaneity
Controlled.
.
Too
serious
Reserved
Stuffy
Predictable.
Lacks
variety
Practical.
Not adventurous
Orderly
.
Rigid
Factual
.
..
..
Picky
Conscientious.
.
..
Inflexible
Perfectionistic
.
Controlling
Discerning.
.
Negative on new opportunities
Detailed.
.
Rarely finishes a project
Analytical.
Loses overview
Inquisitive
...
.
Smothering
Precise.
..
Strict
Persistent
.
...
Pushy
Scheduled.
.
Boring
Sensitive.
...
Stubborn
"How was it done in the past ?"
Beaver score (double the number circled): __________
Charting the Results
L
O
GR
B
40---------------------------------------------------------------------------------40
35---------------------------------------------------------------------------------35
30---------------------------------------------------------------------------------30
25---------------------------------------------------------------------------------25
20---------------------------------------------------------------------------------20
15---------------------------------------------------------------------------------15
10---------------------------------------------------------------------------------10
5---------------------------------------------------------------------------------5
0---------------------------------------------------------------------------------0
How did you do? Remember this isnt a pass-fail test. This evaluation
simply
shows your tendencies and traits. As you look at your charted score, you
may
see a blend of all four categories. Thats fine. Or you may see two
scores
significantly higher than the others. Or you may have one category
thats head
and shoulders above the other three. No none pattern is
correct.
Now take note of the right-hand column extreme for each of your circled
characteristics. This might be how your positive traits are perceived by
your
family or friends.
Lions are leaders, decisive, bottom line, problem-solvers, not
conversational.
Otters are fun-loving, entertainers, net workers, motivators,
creative, talkers.
Retrievers are loving, nurturing, loyal, good listeners, encouragers.
Beavers are hard-working, detailed, accurate, focused on quality.
Consciously work to become more aware of your natural tendencies. Go for a
healthy balance, tempering any extreme problem area, focus on your
strengths and learn to cultivate the strengths of less dominant
personality
traits.
Some suggestions for each personality type:
Lions: Be softer and more gentle and include others when making
decisions.
Otters: Think before you speak, and consider consequences before you
act.
Retrievers: Practice saying no and making firm decisions.
Beavers: Learn to relax and dont expect others to do things just
like you.
For a more in depth study on personality development, please read
The Two Sides of Love, Gary Smalley and John Trent. |